December 13, 2008


MERRY CHRISTMAS!















Dear Friends & Family,

We hope this holiday season finds you all healthy and happy! We send each of you our warmest wishes and most heartfelt thanks for all the love and support you have extended to our family throughout this year!

As soon as the Christmas season began, we started remembering all of the amazing acts of kindness that we received during the Christmas season last year. We still don't feel like we've said thank you enough for all the sacrifice and generosity that we received. We are still blown away thinking about it 12 months later. To all of you who did anything for us last Christmas, or since, (big or small, in person or in secret) thank you, thank you, thank you - again!

Thankfully, we are in a much better place this year, and hoping to be more on the giving end rather than the receiving end of Christmas kindness this year!

EVAN - is still plugging along with chemo treatments every other week. The nausea has been a lot worse in the last few months, but he's determined to hang in there until January. His next MRI is scheduled for January 5th, and after that I think we will strongly consider switching to a three-week schedule.

We had a little trouble with his blood thinning medication over the last 6 weeks and that has been frustrating, but as of last week it seems to have stabilized. Basically, the Coumidin wasn't keeping his blood thin enough, and he was at risk for blood clots again. Week after week they would raise the dose, but we'd come back a week later and there would be no improvement. Finally, after 6 weeks of raising the dose, it thinned to a safe range, phew! That's the kind of stuff that makes me crazy!

MARGOT - was released from the R.S. Presidency at church after three years, and is now having fun teaching the 8-year-old children in Primary. A dream job landed in her lap recently, doing part-time computer work from home for a marketing firm in Salt Lake City. It's as if it was custom made for our needs and circumstances - a huge blessing! And of course, she stays busy keeping track of doctor appointments, picking up prescriptions, and fighting with the insurance company!

RYAN - (age 13) is now taller than his mother! He has been extremely busy earning straight A's in 8th grade, playing flag football, serving as President of the Deacon's Quorum at church, playing the Trumpet in the Junior High School Band, and playing X-BOX whenever he gets the chance. In his spare time he loves teasing his sister!

LINDSAY - (age 6) loves Kindergarten, and learning to read! This year she learned to jump-rope, lost her first two teeth, and went horseback riding for her birthday. She loves taking gymnastics, playing with her friends, and singing her own made-up songs. In her spare time she enjoys annoying her brother!

As we celebrate the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, we give thanks for the countless blessings we receive everyday because of his life, his teachings, his sacrifice, and his love for us. We wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

With much love and gratitude,
Evan, Margot, Ryan, & Lindsay Gardiner



Here's what we've been up to, since I wrote last:

TRIP TO SOUTHERN UTAH!


In October we got to take a little family trip to Southern Utah. The kids had three days off from school and we were in desperate need of a change in scenery (thanks Mom & Dad, for making it possible!). We stayed at a great little resort in Brian Head and had a wonderful time! The kids spent lots of time in the hotel pool, we went for walks, took a day trip to Bryce Canyon, went horseback riding, celebrated two birthdays, and just generally relaxed and hung out together. Here are some pictures from our fun weekend!


Cedar Breaks National Monument was breathtaking at sunset!















On the second day of our trip, we celebrated Lindsay's 6th Birthday! She got to blow out her candles on a "birthday muffin" and open her presents in our hotel room.






















Later that day, we went horseback riding at Bryce Canyon. Evan wasn't feeling well enough to go with us, but at the end of the day he had the last laugh - watching the rest of us walk around bow-legged with sore tail-bones.












































During one of our walks, we found a great pond for throwing rocks!



















Evan & Ryan had fun showing off their muscles.


































Lindsay had fun showing off for the camera!





















On the last day of our trip, we celebrated Evan's 40th birthday! A great milestone!
















It was a great get-away! We can't wait to do it again!



HALLOWEEN!


Halloween was a big hit at our house this year! Lindsay was a "girl-pirate," as she called it. As for Ryan, he just wanted to be creepy - I think he succeeded!



October 15, 2008

Latest MRI Results!

Hi Everyone!

We got some unexpected good news today! Evan had his MRI yesterday and it looks like the tumor has shrunk again!

I have to make one disclaimer though. Our doctor got called away on a family emergency and won’t be back for a few days, so I don’t have personal confirmation from him about this. However, we were too impatient to wait through the weekend to get the results - so we talked Evan’s primary care physician into printing out the radiologist’s MRI report, so we could read it ourselves. Since I knew that many of you were anxious to hear something as well, I thought I would go ahead and tell you what it looks like to us.

Two months ago, the tumor measured 2.3 x 1.3 x 1.9

Yesterday, the tumor measured 2.3 x 1.3 x 1.4

If my math skills aren’t too rusty, that’s roughly a 25% reduction (in mass) since the last MRI.

When Evan was originally diagnosed, 14 months ago, the tumor measured 4.4 x 3.9 x 2.7

So basically, from its original size, the tumor has now been reduced by 90%!!!

Considering how aggressive this form of cancer is, these results are no small miracle! They are surely the product of all your prayers!!! Thank you so much for keeping us in your thoughts, through all this time!

We had been told that this chemo would be most effective during the first few months of treatment and then just level off. So, when the last MRI came back with no change, we thought maybe we had seen the last reduction we would ever get. We had even made plans to take a break from treatment if this MRI came back again with no change. Obviously, as Evan put it, “We can’t quit now!” We definitely needed some strong motivation to face another four months of this, and I think we got it!

As a side note - in my August update, I mentioned that we were thinking about switching to a 3 week chemo schedule instead of the every-other-week schedule we were already on. But then we discovered that Evan’s chemo dose would have to increase if we switched. He would have longer to recover, but the higher dose would probably make him sicker in the short term. We decided that wasn’t an option, so we are still on the every-other-week schedule (just in case anyone was confused).

Thanks again for all your support! We’ll keep you posted!


With love and gratitude,

Margot

Thursday's Hero


September 22, 2008












We had one of the most inspiring and memorable experiences of our lives last Thursday! We got to meet the BYU Football Team - coaches, staff, and players! It was truly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity that we will never forget!

To make a long story short - every Thursday, the BYU Football Team invites someone from the community to attend their Thursday afternoon practice, and be recognized for showing courage in the face of adversity. The program is called "Thursday's Heroes."

Imagine our surprise when we discovered last week that our good friend and neighbor, John Cannon, had nominated Evan, and that Evan had been selected! So last Thursday, our family, and the Cannon family, made the trip to Provo for an amazing afternoon!

As you can see, our visit started with some family photos in front of a huge mural of Lavell Edwards Stadium - and it just kept getting better and better from there. Check out the following photos for highlights from our visit.











Tour of the new Student Athlete Building

One of the first things we saw, as we started our tour of the football facilities, was a large board with pictures of each returned missionary on the team with an arrow pointing to the area on the map where they served. Very cool to see!














The team meeting room is a large auditorium. The seats were wide with lots of leg room for those big guys. We got to watch an awesome highlights video that you can't see anywhere else. It was really inspiring! The walls are covered with cardboard "war shields" designed by each player. Before each game, two or three players are chosen to explain the significance of the words and symbols on their particular shield. (As you can see in the back of the auditorium, we brought our own supply of wild-warriors, Lindsay and her best buddy, Lisa Cannon.)













At the front of the team meeting room, there is a large granite rock. After every game, the team members who made big plays get to chisel away some of the rock in the oval area around the 'Y'. Eventually the 'Y' will be raised. Each player has their own personally decorated chisel.



























Evan was drawn to the New England Patriots helmet on the wall where all the BYU players who have gone on to play for the NFL are listed. I gravitated more towards the 49'ers helmet myself.















Steve Young's BYU Jersey.

















Ty Detmer's BYU Jersey.

The Locker Room


In the stairwell leading to the Locker Room, the wall is covered with pictures and profiles of all the people who have been honored as a Thursday's Hero. Lindsay found ours right away.















Also in the stairwell leading to the locker room, there is a plaque with the team's mission statement and goals for the season. Very impressive!





















The Locker Room was huge! It ran the whole length of the building. It was surprisingly clean! Their moms would be proud!


























The man on the right is Cort Trejo. He was the one who arranged our visit and gave us the great tour of the facility. He was awesome!












Meeting LaVell Edwards!


As we headed out the locker room doors to the practice field, we couldn't believe who was standing right in front of us! It was none other than LaVell Edwards. By sheer luck, he happened to be there that day to watch practice. Several members of the staff told us later what an extremely rare occurrence this was. He came right over to Evan, and said, "You must be Thursday's Hero." He talked with Evan as well as our family and friends for quite a while. He was so great! Meeting him was a huge, huge thrill!



























He was also kind enough to sign Ryan's BYU T-Shirt.

















I'm thinking this would make a great Christmas Card Photo - "Merry Christmas from Evan, Margot, Ryan, Lindsay, and LaVell!" (Notice that Lindsay is giving us her "very scary" BYU Cougar growl, with claws and teeth.)
















Eventually, we did actually watch the team practice.